Didn’t knew that, time will ran out so soon and we are celebrating our first wedding anniversary. So do u think this journey was smooth..Has it been a cake walk so far… think again
, Of course as everybody knows ” Marriages are made in heaven but so is lightning and thunder”.
I always wondered how on earth , a boy and a girl will decide their life partner in 30 minutes sitting in cafe parlor corners. Man,when the same thing happened to me i was clueless, what can u say or ask in 30 min…This is called arrange marriage where our elders will make sure that everything matches right from horoscopes to their respective status.
Many would try to relate Arrange marriage to Gambling which i strongly disagree, in gambling u dont have control over end result whereas in the latter u have a complete control and its left to us on which side we have to be. Of course there would be a lot more misunderstandings, lot more to share, to care, to fight for….and its quiet common for a couple who have grown up with different background and different family values. As expected the same thing happened with us as well and we broke all the “Rules Of Engagement” which we had during the “30 minutes” first meet. There are times where we hardly converged but we accepted the fact, console each other and move on… thats how life should be….No marriage is without conflict
Most of the things were new for both of us, as we went into this marriage with idealistic mindset than a realistic one. Due to this mindset we were hurt many times as our expectations were not met and this is where the “understanding” term comes into play. This whole one year has taught me so many things and one of the most important is “Not to take one another for granted” .
Each time we had issues, we emerged stronger and tried to understand each other better and together look forward to new hopes and joys for a beautiful tomorrow..
-Sunil




